A beautiful excerpt from a beautiful post. From Sam's blog.

It is important to note that friendship love is grounded in reality. This begins with the absence of idealization. The great weakness of romantic love is that lovers see each other through the unrealistic lens of idealization. This is, of course, why romantic love is unstable. Eventually reality sets in and shatters the unrealistic perceptions of the loved one.

True friends, in contrast, see each other realistically. Because they know each other so well, they know the weaknesses that are hidden from the view of those at a distance. This awareness, however, does not diminish the respect, affection and admiration that they feel. But they are not prone to idolization. Friends are not fascinated by each other. Nor are they awestruck. They know each other not by the outer garb of persona but by the dependable and relatively stable elements of habit, character, disposition and trait. It is this down-to-earth quality of friendships that gives them stability and endurance. They may be unromantic, but they are anchored in reality.

Viva Friendship.

I discovered that people are not really afraid of dying; they're afraid of not ever having lived, not ever having deeply considered their life's higher purpose, and not ever having stepped into that purpose and at least tried to make a difference in this world." - Joseph Jaworski

This rings truth to me.

I need to find an answer.

I do.

Arggghhhhhhhh I missed that marvel Deadpool figure in ebay~!!!!! >__<

I don't want clothes I don't want gadgets I don't want food

I just want my X-men and Dragonball figures!!

I have so many to buy, but so little cash

Make a poor boy's dream come true!~~

For more of my silly fanboy-toy-fanatic-collector-penniless-long-to-buy-toys razmatazz, do drop by at my Toy Collecting Blog 

You'll get informative bio and pictures of X-men characters too, whats not to love?

Fear

A numbing realization.


Fear.


Desperation.

Facing a huge trial ahead...uncertainty

The Keys to Your Heart

You are attracted to good manners and elegance. In love, you feel the most alive when your lover is creative and never lets you feel bored. You'd like to your lover to think you are loyal and faithful... that you'll never change. You would be forced to break up with someone who was ruthless, cold-blooded, and sarcastic. Your ideal relationship is lasting. You want a relationship that looks to the future... one you can grow with. Your risk of cheating is zero. You care about society and morality. You would never break a commitment. You think of marriage as something precious. You'll treasure marriage and treat it as sacred. In this moment, you think of love as commitment. Love only works when both people are totally devoted.

What Are The Keys To Your Heart?

Special Dedication to Leila Tong Lin!

She was literally my fav hong kong starlet that I grew up watching! Well back then when she was younger, she has already acted in a multitude of dramas and movies. Although she really only got to act the younger versions of the leading attresses. But its good to know that she is now taking on leading roles! Really gotta hand to her in her perseverance towards acting!



Leila speaking mandarin!!

Leila acting in Ten Brothers.